一、别总说来日方长，这世上挥手之间的都是人走茶凉 ！

don't always say the future is long, the world between waving are people walk tea cool!

二、成年人的社交准则：不必理解，互相尊重，留点空间，懂得感恩。

adult social norms: do not understand, respect each other, leave some space, be grateful.

三、很喜欢一句话：宁愿跑起来被拌倒无数次，也不要规规矩矩走一辈子。

very like a word: would rather run up to be tossed countless times, also don't behave a lifetime.

四、没有人会关心你付出过多少努力，撑得累不累，摔得痛不痛，他们只会看你最后站在什么位置，然后羡慕或鄙夷。

no one will care how much effort you pay, too tired, fall pain, they will only see you finally stand in what position, and then envy or disdain.

五、“说到做到”这四个字，真是既浪漫又踏实。

“walk the walk” these four words, really both romantic and practical.

六、放松点，不用和每个人都要好，也不用被每个人喜欢。

Don't be nice to everyone and don't be liked by everyone.

七、人的内心，不种鲜花就会长满杂草，美好生活的意义，不在于拥有物质的多少，而在于睡梦安稳，内心清净。

people's heart, no flowers will grow full of weeds, the meaning of a good life, not in the amount of material, but in the sleep, calm, quiet heart.

八、所谓谣言：是脑残说出，贱人传播，傻子会信的东西。

the so-called rumor: is the brain to speak, bitch spread, fool will believe things.

九、瞻前顾后的人最迷茫，因为不知道自己想要的是什么，东张西望的人最累，因为总觉得自己过得比别人难。

Those who look forward and backward are the most confused, because they don't know what they want. Those who look around are the most tired, because they always feel that their life is more difficult than others.

十、简单的事，想深了，就复杂了。复杂的事，看淡了，就简单了。有些事，笑笑就能过去。有些事，过一阵就能让你笑笑。

simple things, think deeply, complex. Complex things, see light, simple. Some things, smile can be past. Some things make you smile after a while.

十一、人要成长，必有原因，背后的努力与积累一定数倍于普通人。所以，关键还在于自己。——杨绛

People want to grow, there must be a reason, behind the efforts and accumulation of a certain number of times than ordinary people. So, the key is still in yourself. - Yang jiang

十二、顺境逆境都要心存感恩，用一颗柔软的心包容世界。柔软的心最有力量。

prosperity and adversity should be thankful, with a soft heart inclusive world. A soft heart is the most powerful.

十三、人生很多事，不是不懂，只是无奈，这就是生活。一万个为什么，也概括不了一句没什么。

A lot of things in life, not do not understand, but helpless, this is life. Ten thousand why, also can not sum up a nothing.

十四、走错了路要记得回头，爱错了人要懂得放手；你装作刀枪不入的样子，就要做好被万箭穿心的准备。

Take a wrong road to remember to look back, love the wrong person to know how to let go; You pretend to be invulnerable. Be prepared to be pierced by thousands of arrows.

十五、小时候一直不理解，父母为什么可以那么早起床，长大后才明白，叫醒他们的不是闹钟，而是生活和责任！

When I was a child, I did not understand why my parents could get up so early. When I grew up, I realized that what woke them up was not the alarm clock, but life and responsibility!

十六、每个人都有一个死角，自己走不出来，别人也闯不进去。我把最深沉的秘密放在那里。你不懂我，我不怪你。——余秋雨

Everyone has a blind corner, they can't go out, others can't break in. That's where I keep my deepest secrets. You don't understand me. I don't blame you.