人和人之间，没有高低贵贱，也没有三六九等。但却有不同的水准和水平，也有不同的人品和三观。

There is no hierarchy between people, nor is there any hierarchy. But there are different levels and abilities, as well as different personalities and values.

你和一个小人争输赢，赢了他也会报复你；你和一个胡搅蛮缠的人论短长，你永远都解释不通。

You compete with a villain to win or lose, and if you win, he will retaliate against you; You can never explain the pros and cons when you argue with a troublemaker.

有这样一则故事：

There is a story like this:

进京赶考的秀才和一位老农发生了争吵，两人争论不下，直到闹上公堂。

A scholar who was rushing to the capital for an exam had an argument with an old farmer, and they couldn't argue until they went to court.

县令听闻争吵的缘由后，令人狠狠的将秀才打了二十大板。

After hearing the reason for the argument, the county magistrate harshly punished the scholar with twenty lashes.

秀才很是冤枉，委屈的说道：“明明三七就是二十一，他非说三七一十五，又怎会是我错了？”

The scholar was very wronged and said with grievance, "Even though 37 is 21, he insisted on saying 37 and 15. How could it be me who was wrong

县令沉吟道：“你没错，错的是堂堂一个秀才，竟然耗费时间和精力与目不识丁的老农发生争辩。”

The county magistrate pondered for a moment and said, "You're right. What's wrong is that a talented scholar has spent time and energy arguing with an illiterate old farmer

俗话说：“宁与同好争高低，不与傻瓜论长短。”

As the saying goes, "It's better to compete with like-minded people for superiority than to argue with fools about their strengths and weaknesses

不同的人，有不同的思想；不同的心，有不同的度量。

Different people have different thoughts; Different hearts have different measurements.

但你和别人产生分歧，稍稍解释一下就行了，不要几次三番，因为对方根本听不进去。

But if you have a disagreement with someone, just explain it a little, don't repeat it repeatedly, because the other person won't listen at all.

道路相同，能够同行；道路不同，不去强求。三观一致，思想相通，在和人交往中尤为重要。

Same road, able to walk together; The road is different, don't force it. Consistency in values and shared thoughts are particularly important in interpersonal communication.