作者：梓嵚

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道理都懂，但该怨的还是会怨，该骂的还是会骂，该哭的也还是会哭，毕竟心里的难受不是道理所能释怀的。

I understand the principles, but I will still complain, curse, and cry. After all, the pain in my heart cannot be relieved by principles.

最好的处事方式就是，不多看，不多言，不多心。

The best way to handle things is not to look too much, not to say too much, and not to worry too much.

人之所以活的累，是因为放不下架子，撕不开面子，解不开情结。

The reason why people live a tiring life is because they cannot let go of their airs, tear apart their face, or resolve their emotions.

拥有了一颗赤诚的心，便拥有了朋友；拥有了一颗善良的心，便拥有了博爱。善待自己最好的方法就是善待身边的每一个人。

Having a sincere heart means having friends; Having a kind heart, one has universal love. The best way to treat oneself well is to treat everyone around you kindly.

拥抱所有不期而遇的美好。

Embrace all unexpected beauties.

水的清澈，并非因为它不含杂质，而是在于懂得沉淀；心的通透，不是因为没有杂念，而是在于明白取舍。

The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate; The transparency of the heart is not due to the absence of distractions, but rather to the understanding of choices.

选爱人不需要太多标准，只要三样：不骗你，不伤害你，和陪着你。

Choosing a lover doesn't require too many criteria, just three things: not lying to you, not hurting you, and being with you.

做你没做过的事情叫成长，做你不愿意做的事情叫改变，做你不敢做的事情叫突破。

Doing things you haven't done before is called growth, doing things you don't want to do is called change, and doing things you dare not do is called breakthrough.