一位哲人曾说：“不是所有的鱼儿都生活在同一片海洋中。”

A philosopher once said, "Not all fish live in the same ocean

每个人都来自不同的地方，有着不同的圈子和不同的习惯，圈子若是不同，不要强行融入，习惯不同，也不要强求改变。

Everyone comes from different places, has different circles and habits. If the circles are different, do not forcefully integrate. If the habits are different, do not force change.

不要为了得到别人的理解和认可，就去迎合他人，委屈了自己。

Don't compromise yourself by catering to others just to gain their understanding and recognition.

别人的看法，无法改变，别人的想法，更是难以控制，与其想着取悦谁，不如取悦自己，与其想着改变谁，不如改变自己。

The opinions of others cannot be changed, and their thoughts are even more difficult to control. Instead of trying to please someone, it is better to please oneself. Instead of trying to change someone, it is better to change oneself.

做好自己，一切都无需解释，懂你的人自会懂，不懂你的再怎么解释也是白费力气。

Be yourself, there's no need to explain anything. Those who understand you will understand. No matter how you explain something that doesn't understand you, it's all in vain.