古人云：任他怨天尤人，我自安之若素。

The ancients said: Let him complain to heaven and others, I will be content with myself.

这句话的意思是说：尽管别人经常抱怨，我却依旧安然自得。

The meaning of this sentence is: Although others often complain, I am still content and content.

经常抱怨的人，身上都会充满着负面消极的情绪，使人不愿与之相处；

People who often complain will be filled with negative emotions, making them unwilling to get along with them;

反而一个不抱怨的人，才会显得很有修养，周身充满着正能量。

On the contrary, a person who does not complain will appear very cultured and full of positive energy all around.

南有胡雪岩，北有大盛魁。作为一名商人，胡雪岩被御赐二品顶戴，被赏黄马褂，这是中国历史上罕见的。

There is Hu Xueyan in the south and Dashengkui in the north. As a businessman, Hu Xueyan was bestowed with a second grade top hat and a yellow coat, which is rare in Chinese history.

胡雪岩破产时，家人为财去楼空而叹惜，他却说：我胡雪岩本无财可破，当初我不过是一个月俸四两银子的伙计，眼下光景没什么不好。以前种种，譬如昨日死；以后种种，譬如今日生吧。

When Hu Xueyan went bankrupt, his family sighed for the emptiness of his property. However, he said, "I, Hu Xueyan, had no wealth to break. Back then, I was just a clerk with a monthly salary of four taels of silver, and my current situation is not bad.". Previously, such as dying yesterday; In the future, for example, give birth today.

不抱怨，不怨天尤人，胡雪岩的这份淡定让人敬佩。

Not complaining, not blaming others, Hu Xueyan's composure is admirable.

古人云：人生不如意事十之八九。

The ancients said, "Life is not as good as good things.".

一个人如果真正能够正确对待这些不如意事，就会拥有豁达的人生。

If a person can truly handle these unpleasant things correctly, they will have an open-minded life.

人生后半程，你需要腾出心灵的空来，跟自己的过去说一声：算了。

In the latter half of life, you need to free up space in your heart and say to your past: forget it.

淡定，安然地，向往未来的美好。

Calm and peaceful, yearning for the beauty of the future.