为什么“我说什么他都不听”？

Why doesn't he listen to anything I say?

问题的关键多半是“我”关上了对方的嘴巴。

The key to the problem is mostly that "I" closed the other person's mouth.

很多时候我们想向别人传达我们的想法，但也别忘了顾及：对方想不想听，以及对方的情绪是否能够承受。

Many times, we want to convey our ideas to others, but don't forget to consider whether the other person wants to listen and whether their emotions can handle it.

所以，要学会赞赏他人，帮助对方纾解情绪。

So, we should learn to appreciate others and help them relieve their emotions.

马克·吐温说：“只凭一句赞美的话，我可以多活两个月。”

Mark Twain said, "With just one compliment, I can live an extra two months."

当我们能通过赞美让对方感到充满希望，我们就是在提供情绪价值的人。

When we can make others feel hopeful through praise, we are people who provide emotional value.

高情绪价值的人，总是先讲情绪，再讲道理。

People with high emotional value always talk about emotions first and then reason.