三月流焱:说话的方式,知人不评人

旧游成梦寐 2024-08-21 13:59:07

看过这样一句话:“一个人最大的恶意,就是把自己的理解强加于别人,把所有的结果理所当然用自己的过程来解释,并一直认为自己是正确的。”

The greatest malice of a person is to impose one's own understanding on others, to explain all the results naturally through one's own process, and to always believe that one is right

生活中,总有一些人喜欢站在自己的角度和立场去评判他人。

In life, there are always some people who like to judge others from their own perspective and standpoint.

在不了解事实的情况下,以己度人,妄加评论。

Without understanding the facts, judge others based on oneself and make unfounded comments.

《庄子》有云:“子非鱼,焉知鱼之乐?”

Zhuangzi once said, "If a child is not a fish, how can he know the joy of fish

每个人都各有自己的生活取向和价值选择,不要做他人生活的审判者。

Everyone has their own life orientation and value choices, don't be the judge of others' lives.

这世界很大,从不缺发表意见的人,缺的是不随意评价他人的善良和涵养。

The world is vast, and there is never a shortage of people to express their opinions. What is lacking is the kindness and cultivation to not casually evaluate others.

知人不评人,是与人交往时的一份克制、一份自律,是真正的成熟。

Knowing people without judging them is a restraint and self-discipline when interacting with others, and it is true maturity.

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