我们所有的痛苦，都不是痛苦本身，都是面对人生问题的看不穿，想不通，说不透。

All our pain is not pain itself, it is the inability to see through, understand, and explain life's problems.

总结来说，就是格局不够，你的痛苦大多数也都来源于此。

In summary, it's just that the pattern is not enough, and most of your pain comes from this.

我们的汉字就很巧妙地体现了这样一个道理：

Our Chinese characters cleverly embody the following principle:

一个站在山上的人，瞭望的是星河壮阔，天地广袤，眼光长远，故为“仙”人；

A person standing on a mountain, gazing out at the magnificent Milky Way, vast expanse of heaven and earth, and a long-term vision, is therefore called a "fairy" person;

一个站在山谷里的人，委身于谷底，目之所及都是鸡毛蒜皮之事，眼光狭隘受限，故为“俗”人。

A person standing in a valley, devoted to the valley floor, with a narrow and limited perspective, is considered a "vulgar" person.

做人，只要有了一定的格局，先“见自己”，了解自己的优势和不足；

To be a person, as long as you have a certain pattern, first "see yourself" and understand your strengths and weaknesses;

再“见天地”，看清天地的广阔，自身的渺小，就能把小日子过得顺风顺水。

Seeing the vastness of the world and one's own insignificance, one can lead a smooth and prosperous life.

格局，往往决定了我们能看多高，能走多远。

Pattern often determines how high we can look and how far we can go.