认知同频，争辩擦出思维的火花；认知不同，争辩只是浪费口舌。

Cognitive resonance sparks the spark of thinking through debate; Different cognition, arguing is just a waste of words.

心存偏见的人对人对事都有着自己的一套判断标准，事情的对与错、是与非，全凭他自己而定。

A person with prejudice has their own set of judgment standards for people and things, and the right and wrong, right and wrong of things are all determined by themselves.

不要和有偏见的人做多余的解释，也没必要为了迎合他们而改变自己。

Don't make unnecessary explanations with biased people, and there's no need to change yourself to cater to them.

因为你无论怎么做，在有偏见的人眼里都是错的，如果你一味和他解释，他还会认为“看吧，被我说中了！”

Because no matter what you do, it's always wrong in the eyes of biased people. If you keep explaining to them, they will still think, 'Look, I got it right!'

作家苏芩说：别跟杠精硬杠，你赢不了，因为在他狭小的世界里，自己就是绝对真理。

Writer Su Qin said, "Don't argue with the gangsters, you can't win because in his small world, you are the absolute truth.

任别人抬杠，随别人找茬，若是心不动，别人的口舌利剑，也伤害不到自己。

Let others argue and find fault with you. If you don't move your heart, other people's sharp words and swords won't hurt you.

时刻明白，再多言语，都敌不过一句“随便你”；再多道理，都不如一句“随它去”。

Always understand that no matter how many words you say, they cannot compete with a simple 'whatever you want'; No matter how many reasons there are, it's better to just say 'let it go'.

日常生活中，其实从来没有鲜明的黑白对错，只是站在“盲人摸象”的不同角度罢了。

In daily life, there is never a clear right or wrong between black and white, it's just standing from different perspectives of "blind people touching elephants".

志同道合，实属偶然；观点不同，才是常态。

Shared aspirations are truly accidental; Different opinions are the norm.

人到中年，一次次碰壁领悟之后，终会明白：面对不同，不辩，才是最高级的反击。

In middle age, after repeatedly encountering obstacles and understanding, one will eventually realize that facing differences without debate is the highest level of counterattack.