周国平曾说：

Zhou Guoping once said:

“人生中大多数痛苦，其实都源于盲目较劲。”

Most of the pain in life actually stems from blind competition

较劲于过去的“不幸”，就过不好当下的生活。

Struggling with past misfortunes makes it difficult to live a good life in the present.

事实上，“过去”的影响力，并非客观，而是主观。

In fact, the influence of the 'past' is not objective, but subjective.

一帆风顺的人生谁都想要拥有。

Everyone wants to have a smooth sailing life.

但有些事，不以个人的意志为转移，我们无法左右事情的发展，静观其变，见机行事，也不失为一种明智。

But there are some things that are not subject to personal will, and we cannot control the development of things. It is also wise to observe and act according to the situation.

面对生活的种种可能，豁达的人会预留足够的空间去容纳，把所有经历变成阅历，丰富自己的生命。

Faced with the various possibilities of life, open-minded people will reserve enough space to accommodate them, turn all experiences into experiences, and enrich their lives.

以积极的心态过好每一个当下，才能保持从容向上、有所成长。

Living every moment with a positive attitude is the key to maintaining composure and growth.

泰戈尔说，如果你因错过太阳而流泪，那么你也将错过群星。

Tagore said, 'If you shed tears when you miss the sun, you will also miss the stars.'.

人生，错过了一个机会，总还有下一个在等着你。

Life, if you miss an opportunity, there is always another one waiting for you.

给时间时间，让过去过去，微笑向暖，才是你最美的模样。

Give time, let the past pass, smile warmly, that is your most beautiful appearance.

治愈过去的最好方法，就是设定好想要的目标，并下定改变的决心，一往无前。

The best way to heal the past is to set desired goals and make the determination to change, moving forward without hesitation.