你的生活里一定有这样的人，Ta是朋友里的“聊天终结者”，喜欢通过讽刺和贬低别人，来满足和填补自己内心的平衡。

There must be someone in your life who is the "chat terminator" among friends, who likes to satisfy and fill their inner balance by satirizing and belittling others.

当你心里的火山即将爆发时，Ta总会补上一句：“我这人性子直，说话就这样，你别介意。”

When the volcano in your heart is about to erupt, Ta always adds, "I'm straightforward and speak like this, don't mind

作家亦舒曾说：涵养与修养并非虚伪，故意使人难堪也并非直率，这里面有很大分别。

Writer Yi Shu once said: Cultivation and refinement are not hypocritical, and intentionally embarrassing others is not straightforward, there is a big difference between them.

幽默，永远是建立在尊重别人的基础上，让彼此感到舒适。

Humor is always based on respecting others and making each other feel comfortable.

而不是披着幽默的外皮去挖苦别人，戳别人的短处，在别人的伤疤上撒盐。

Instead of wearing a humorous exterior to mock others, poke at their shortcomings, and sprinkle salt on their scars.

有时候你随口说的一句话，就会在别人心里掀起巨大的波澜。

Sometimes a casual remark you make can create a huge ripple in someone's heart.

你无心的一次调侃，就可能是扎在别人心上的一根刺。

A casual joke you make can be a thorn in someone else's heart.

把尖酸刻薄当作幽默感，会让一段关系在无形之中走到尽头。

Treating sarcasm as a sense of humor can lead a relationship to an invisible end.

与人相交时，不要乱开玩笑，只有彼此都感到舒服时，感情才能走得长远。

When interacting with others, don't joke around. Only when both parties feel comfortable can the relationship last long.