俗话说，未经他人苦，莫劝他人善。

As the saying goes, do not advise others to do good without experiencing their suffering.

人行于世，每个人都有自己的活法，你没有穿过别人的鞋，走过别人的路，就无从知晓别人的境遇。

In the world, everyone has their own way of living. If you haven't worn someone else's shoes or walked someone else's path, you won't know their situation.

成年人的社交，最忌讳的就是干涉别人的生活。

The most taboo thing in adult socialization is to interfere with others' lives.

很多时候，即使是出于善意，也不要轻易地评价别人。

Many times, even out of goodwill, do not easily evaluate others.

当我们用自己的尺子，去衡量别人的人生时，只会暴露自己的无知。

When we use our own ruler to measure the lives of others, it only exposes our own ignorance.

接纳世界的参差，允许有人和自己活得不一样，是一种智慧，更是一种修养。

Accepting the diversity of the world and allowing others to live differently from oneself is not only a wisdom, but also a cultivation.

从现在开始收起自己的热情，给对方留点空间，也给两个人的关系留一条缝隙。

From now on, put away your passion, leave some space for the other person, and also leave a gap in the relationship between the two.

当你懂得尊重别人时，才能获得别人发自内心的接纳。

When you understand how to respect others, you can gain their heartfelt acceptance.