有肚量，就是有大格局，看得宽看得开。

Having a broad mind means having a broad perspective and a broad perspective.

人要有大肚量，首先就要“静心”“寡欲”。

To have a large appetite, one must first "calm down" and "have few desires.".

人之心胸，寡欲则宽。

A person's heart is broad when there is little desire.

细细数来，人生真正重要的大事就那么几件。

Counting in detail, there are only a few truly important events in life.

不要放太多精力在鸡毛蒜皮的小事上，何必为了一时的蝇头小利与人争个头破血流，相信时间是最好的医者，你说受过的损失与委屈都会在未来以不同的形式补偿给你。

Don't put too much energy into trivial matters. Why compete with others for short-term petty gains? Believe that time is the best doctor. The losses and grievances you have suffered will be compensated for in different forms in the future.

眼界放宽一点，生活不只有家门口的一亩三分地，也不只是邻人口舌上的那些长长短短。

Broaden your horizons a bit, life is not just about one acre or three fen of land at your doorstep, nor is it just about the long and short phrases on the lips of your neighbors.