说话是本能,会说是本事。
Speaking is instinct, speaking is skill.
很认同一句话:
I strongly agree with one sentence:
人人都有一张嘴,能说话,不代表会说话;说得多,不代表说的对;很多时候,口沫横飞,比不上适时的沉默。
Everyone has a mouth and can speak, but that doesn't mean they can speak; Saying too much doesn't mean you're right; Many times, foaming at the mouth cannot compare to timely silence.
良言一句三冬暖,恶语伤人六月寒。说话,最能体现一个人的能力。
A good word brings warmth to the three winters, while a bad word hurts the cold of June. Speaking best reflects a person's ability.
会说话的人,懂得什么场合说什么话,知道什么该说,什么不该说。
A person who can speak knows what to say in different situations, knows what to say and what not to say.
这样的人,从不用言语伤人,也不会因说话而与他人产生隔阂。
Such people never use words to hurt others, nor do they create barriers with others because of their words.
一个人说话的分寸,就是他做人的尺度。
The measure of a person's speech is the measure of their character.
说话之前换位思考,考虑对方感受,顾忌别人面子。
Before speaking, put yourself in others' shoes, consider their feelings, and care about their face.
多思量,知分寸,才能在与人相处中游刃有余、左右逢源。
Only with careful consideration and a sense of propriety can one handle interpersonal relationships with ease and find the right balance.