每失一物，必有所得；每得一物，必有所失。

Every loss is a gain; every gain is a gain.

两个人非常渴，喝同一口井水时，一个用金杯，一个用泥杯。Two people are very thirsty, and drink the same well water, one with a gold cup, the other with a mud cup.前者觉得自己富贵，后者认为自己贫贱；前者得到了虚荣的满足，后者陷入无谓的烦恼中。The former feels rich, the latter thinks poor; the former is satisfied with vanity, the latter in meaningless trouble.

他们都忘了，自己需要的是“水”，而不是“盛水的杯子”。They all forget that they need "water", not a "cup of water".我们在生活中也是如此，不要被自己不需要的东西所烦恼。We do the same in our life, don't be bothered by what we don't need.

希望这个秋天，风没有那么大，剩下的话秋天再说，好好生活，夏事若未如愿，那就祝我们好在这个秋天！Hope this autumn, the wind is not so big, the rest of the autumn again, live a good life, if the summer things do not wish, then I wish us good in this autumn!