人生，不能一味地想着去索取。总是依赖别人，指望别人，便会忘记自己来到这人世间走一遭的目的。对别人的依赖越大，其实自己未来的路就越短。

In life, we cannot just think about taking. Always relying on others and expecting others will make you forget the purpose of your journey in this world. The greater the dependence on others, the shorter the path ahead for oneself.

生活中，遇到困难坎坷是常有的事，遇事先想着自己去解决的人，只会越来越强大。有的时候，不去麻烦别人，是一种有教养的体现，也是对别人最好的关照。

In life, encountering difficulties and setbacks is common. People who think about solving problems on their own will only become stronger. Sometimes, not bothering others is a sign of manners and the best care for others.

那些遇事永远指望别人的人，就如同生活中的矮子，总有一天会退化到自己什么问题都解决不了，活着就是别人的累赘，负担。

Those who always rely on others when faced with problems are like dwarfs in life, who will one day degenerate to the point where they cannot solve any problems, and living will be a burden and burden to others.