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What type of people should I not trust in life?在生活中我不应该信任什么样的人?原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处

评论翻译Anna SharudenkoThose whose mood is extremely volatile.Addicts.Those who harm animals.Those who gossip.Everyone, except close family and long time friends.Yourself. There is a saying, “The Japanese say you have three faces. The first face, you show the world. The second face, you show to your close friends, and your family. The third face, you never show to anyone. It is the truest reflection of who you are.”那些情绪极不稳定的人。上瘾者。那些伤害动物的人。那些说闲话的人。除了亲密的家人和老朋友之外的所有人。你自己；有句话说：“日本人说人有三张脸。第一张脸，你向世界展示的。第二张脸，你向亲密朋友和家人展示的。第三张脸，从不向任何人展示。这是你是谁的最真实写照。”原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处Samanwita KarI tried to SELL a phone over OLX in Bengaluru. (OLX is a website to sell and buy used goods.)1. Over friendly Bengali guy calls me for 12 mins to convince me that he will send me the money right now and will collect the phone later because I am like his 'sister' and he 'trusts' me. I refuse and say I will take money when i give phone. He forces because he really really wants the phone. I refuse. He insists again. I give him account number but also ask him not to send before I send him a copy of my aadhar card. He says, "I trust you". He does not send money.2. He comes to my house same evening (he said he would not be able to come in the next 5 days) and checks the phone. With the phone in his hand, he leaves to withdraw money from ATM. I ask him to give back the phone and he says, "Why can't you trust me when I trust you?". I remain silent and take back the phone.我试着在班加罗尔的OLX上卖一部手机。（OLX是一个出售和购买二手商品的网站。）1.一个非常“友好”的孟加拉人给我打了12分钟的电话，令我确信他会马上给我转钱，稍后再收电话，因为我就像他的“姐姐”，他“信任”我。我拒绝了，并说我给电话时再转钱。他着急转钱是因为他真的很想要手机。我拒绝了，他又再坚持。我给了他账号，但也要求他在我给他寄我的身份卡副本之前不要转账。他说：“我信任你”。最后他没有转钱。2.他当天晚上来我家（他说他在未来5天内不能来），并检查了手机。他手里拿着电话，要离开去自动柜员机取钱。我让他把手机还给我，他说：“我信任你，你为什么不能信任我呀？”。我保持沉默，收回了手机。3. He comes back within 10 seconds to say his ATM card is lost. He does not look concerned and calls somebody to block his card and finishes the entire call in less than a minute (which bank I wonder!). He asks me to handover the phone to him and that he will transfer money once he reaches home because he does not know his internet banking password. I refuse. He gets offended and says "Being a bengali, why can't you trust another bengali". I do not reply.4. He suddenly remembers his password. He adds me as a beneficiary and says, "Now it will take 30 mins for the bank to allow me to send money. since I have added you, I will give you money. I am in hurry. Please give me the phone". I refuse and ask him to wait. He explains me how adding me as a beneficiary will compel him to send me money. I am almost convinced that I am with a fraud. I become extra cautious.3.他不到10秒就回来说他的ATM卡丢了，但是他看起来并不担心，打电话给某人注销他的号码，并在不到一分钟的时间内完成了整个通话（我想知道是哪家银行！）。他让我把手机交给他，他到家后会转账的，因为他不知道自己的网上银行密码，我拒绝了。他生气的说：“作为一个孟加拉人，你为什么不能相信另一个孟加拉”，我不予回答。4.他突然想起了自己的密码。他加我为收款人，说：“现在银行需要30分钟才能允许我汇款。既然我加了你，我就会给你钱。我很着急，请把手机给我。”。我拒绝了，让他等一下。他向我解释了将我作为收款人会迫使他给我转钱。我几乎确信我是和一个骗子在一起。我变得格外谨慎。5. In the span of next half an hour, several times he tries to say where he lives, what his wife does and other personal information. Once, he gets a urgent phone call and runs out of the house with my phone in his hand. I run after him and take the phone back. He comes back finishing the call in the very next moment.6. After half an hour, the transfer is still not possible due to technical issue (he says) and I offer paytm or phone-pe. But he does not receive any OTP even after registering. Several attempts all failed (probably because he was giving some other phone number while registering).7. He wants my father to accompany him to his house, collect money and come back. We all refuse to go anywhere with him. We ask him to come back tomorrow. He gets pissed off, says how we do not trust him even when he called me his sister, how we, being a Bengali, do not help a Bengali, how we wasted his time etc. He almost leaves.8. He comes back to request me as his little sister to give him the phone since his phone is broken and he is in deep trouble. We refuse to be kind enough. He leaves, with 'that' look in his eyes.We keep on discussing for the next one hour how many attempts he made to cheat us on a phone worth Rs 3000.You don’t trust a stranger.You don’t trust people who ‘trust’ you for no reason. Then you are morally obligated to trust them for bigger things and suffer loss.You don’t trust people who refuse to behave rationally.You don’t trust somebody where you have a chance to suffer loss.5.在接下来的半个小时里，他多次试图说出自己住在哪里，妻子做什么以及其他个人信息。有一次，他接到一个紧急电话，手里拿着我的手机跑出了房子。我追着他，把手机拿了回来。他马上就回来接电话了。6.半个小时后，由于技术问题（他说），仍然不可能转账，我提供paytm或 phone-pe之类收款工具。但即使在注册后，他也没有收到任何一次性密码。几次尝试都失败了（可能是因为他在注册时提供了其他电话号码）。7.他想让我父亲陪他去他家，然后收钱回来。我们都拒绝和他一起去任何地方。我们请他明天再来。他很生气，说我们怎么不信任他，甚至他都叫我为他的姐姐，我们作为一个孟加拉人，怎么不帮助一个孟加拉人，我们是如何浪费他的时间等等，他差点就离开了。8.他回来要求我作为他的姐姐并把手机给他，因为他的手机坏了，他陷入了困境。我们拒绝善良。他，眼睛里带着“那样”的表情离开了。在接下来的一个小时里，我们一直在讨论他有多少次试图欺骗我们这个价值3000卢比的手机。你不要信任陌生人。你不要信任那些无端“信任”你的人。若如此，那么你在道德上有义务相信他们做更大级别的事情，并遭受损失。你不要信任那些拒绝理性行事的人。你不要信任有机会让你遭受损失的人。Craig BomwmanSalesmen/hustlers who tell you they have the best deal that you won’t find anywhere else.Politicians. Most (not all) are likable conmen that have agendas of personal gain.Junkies. “You can turn your back on a person, but, never turn your back on a drug. Especially when it's waving a razor-sharp hunting knife in your eye.” - Raoul DukeAny potential partner you first meet that rushes in too quickly. As good as it feels in the present this is a major red flag and you should run.Anyone that has control of your money. Watch them closely. Dane Cook the comedian had to send his own brother to jail after finding out he had been stealing from him for years.Sociopaths/Narcissists: these are wolves in sheep’s clothing. They wreck lives for sport or personal satisfaction.推销员/骗子告诉你他们能与达成你在其他地方实现不了的最好的交易。政客们：大多数（并非所有）都是讨人喜欢的骗子，他们有个人利益的秘密目的。毒品贩子：“你可以用后背对着一个人，但永远不要用后背对着毒品。当它拿着一把锋利的猎刀指着你的眼睛时。”-拉乌尔·杜克任何你第一次仓促见到的潜在搭档。尽管现在感觉很好，但这是一个重大的危险信号，你应该远离。任何能控制你钱的人：仔细观察他们。喜剧演员戴恩·库克（Dane Cook）在发现自己的兄弟多年来一直在偷东西后，不得不将其送进监狱。反社会者/自恋者：这些都是披着羊皮的狼。他们为了娱乐或个人满足而毁掉生活。Doctors. When they tell you there is no other treatment available, always get a second opinion and research alternative therapies.A kind stranger. If it seems a bit odd someone you just met is going out of their way for you and it doesn’t make sense chances are they want something from you. It’s best to err on the side of caution.A mentally unstable drama queen. just trust me on this one.A pathological liar. If someone slips up just remember they didn’t expect getting caught. What else could they be lying to you about.A Criminal/ex con. It is most likely they dabble in stealing/ lying/ and a bit of unsavory type behavior.Humans. Just stay at home with your cat. Better yet get a dog, they’re a bit more loyal ;)医生：当他们告诉你没有其他治疗方法时，一定要征求另一种意见，研究替代疗法。一个善良的陌生人：如果你觉得有些奇怪，你刚认识的人是在为你做一些不合理的事情，那很可能他们想从你身上得到什么。宁可谨慎，也不要犯错。精神不稳定的小题大做的人：相信我就好。网络 病态撒谎者：如果有人犯了错，记住他们没有想到会被抓住；他们还能骗你什么呢。罪犯/前囚犯：他们很可能涉及偷窃/撒谎/以及一些令人讨厌的行为。人类：和你的猫呆在家里。最好还是养条狗，它们更忠诚